This is a really important question that will decide how you will perform in your role as an escort. Many think that becoming an escort is the quickest way to make big money. Some come into the business hoping to meet people from around the world and enjoy their time with them. Everybody involved in or getting into escort services knows that sex is a big part of her work. This should be absolutely clear in your mind. You also should ask yourself whether you are ready to commit to becoming an escort.
Like every other legitimate business, you need to be in the industry for some time to start seeing the kind of money that you dream of when you begin. It means that you need to be committed for the long term. This is not mandatory of course, but you still want to be sure about starting out as an escort. Many believe that an escort is just a glamorized version of a prostitute, but it is far from where the truth actually lies. The client base for an escort is completely different than that for a prostitute.
It is true that you may be able to meet clients from all over the world. You may be able to travel with them to high profile parties, where you meet many more people from various backgrounds. However, you need to be comfortable with having sex with your clients, because it is unofficially accepted that they are paying you in part for it. If you are not ready to provide sexual services as well, your career as an escort will be very limited because there are clients who just want your company for a brief period of time.
If your answer is in the affirmative, then you can confidently go ahead with your decision. One of the advantages of becoming an escort is that after a while, you can choose your working times. You can put forward your terms and you accept only those clients that need services within your chosen time frame and service scope. Many escorts work part time in addition to their regular work. They earn a lot of money this way, which is why you see so many escorts who are flush with money. However, if you are flexible with your timings, it only works in your favor, because you will have a greater number of potential clients and will mostly be assured an appointment.
However, the important point to consider here is that you always have a choice in this business. You decide how much you want to earn and then set your work hours according to that goal. You know that you will be having sex frequently with strangers in your work as an escort. This could be a contentious issue with your family who will either not approve of it or will be concerned about your safety. Although escorts are largely accepted as professionals, it may still concern your family and they may be worried about the image you create for yourself around others.
Similarly, consider whether you are ready to tell your friends about being an escort, and whether they will accept your choice. As with everything in life, it is a choice you make and there are some tradeoffs.
Now, it is completely possible that both your family and friends accept your choice and be fine with it. Many escorts simply do not reveal that they are escorts to their family and friends. They thus do not have to face this dilemma. An important thing about the escort business is that there is very little information floating out there about you.
Officially, there is no way for anybody to know that you had sex with your clients. You could just put your profession forward as a clean one. Here is how you can become an escort and still be safe. When you are an escort, you do not reveal much information about yourself to even your clients. All escorts use aliases when they meet clients, so there is no personally identifying information that people have about you.
The smart escorts are careful not to let their pictures circulate and be associated online with the escort business. As mentioned earlier, being an escort is much more about sex.
Remember you are accompanying your client to various places. Your client may be a high profile businessman with prestige in his industry. When you accompany such a person, you are part of his image and how you handle yourself among other high profile people matters a lot.
In other words, the escort business is very much a people business. You need to know how to handle people and how to communicate with them effectively. Of course, it does matter how good you look. However, you need your whole body to be in shape. This is why many escorts feel that you should become an escort only if you are happy and comfortable doing so.
If you have a certain comfort level, you will be more confident and will come across as a beautiful person for company. People who hire escorts on a regular basis know what the really good escorts are like. If you want to attract clients who pay big money, you need to convince them that you have the required skills.
If you are of a very strong nature and are independent, an escort job will suit you just fine. You will of course need to figure out whether you have polished skills when talking with people. It also matters whether you can keep your client in good humor, because that is what company is all about. You may want to become an escort just so you can earn a bit of extra money. If that is the case, you are likely considering part time work as an escort.
This is a good choice, especially when you are getting started. It helps you learn more about the escort service industry, while still holding on to the comfort of your regular job. This is, in fact, how many successful escorts start their work. Also read my various articles about my experiences with the subject: Maybe you want to give it a try at "Magic Dream Angels", look it up in search and talk to "Chearleaderin" about it.
I think I will simply start with hiring a few Escorts myself to learn from it and finding good locations, I often just let someone take me to their home or bring them to my multiscene skybox which is very versatile but not really a special and personalised place, except that I can rez my own furniture and poseballs there. The biggest challenge for me is to determine what style of emoting is best for a given situation when someone isn't clear about his or her wishes.
I can be very romantic and give someone a girlfriend experience or be a partner to talk with, but also a merciless Mistress or a slave that bends to the will of her temporary owner or anything in between. I have three years of extensive roleplay experience in various roles. I had a failed encounter where I overwhelmed someone with long emotes and another one where I was too harsh for someone by unleashing some degrading animations and emotes upon her.
Based on her profile I assumed that this was what she wanted but I was miserably mistaken her English was quite bad and possibly unable to express herself properly about her desires. It was free so I didn't really care, but when dealing with paying customers, this is of course unacceptable.
I guess I will continue my exploration and research on the subject for now before I feel confident enough to actually take the leap and get into this business. I use to run a promotion buisness for clubs, escorts, etc etc.
If your starting out the best way to learn the ropes is to find a reputable establishment and work out of there. For several reasons I say this. Mostly you learn how existing residents run the game from a location of buisness. You learn how the buisness is ran. Most importently if you want an SL outside of your job it needs to be known when your not there your not on the pimps clock for lack of a better term. I don't advise friending clients unless you have another avatar you play on for your normal gameplay.
You also need to defiine your limitations either in your profile, a notecard, or whatever ad board you have set up if you have one. When I say define limitations I refer to the levels of sex in SL as in type rp, voice sex or cam sex. Because you will run in to all types. Also you need to clarify what rp if any your not willing to do. It's not just about sex as was stated, but also you have to realise this is a buisness too so your not really thier friend. You cross that line they are gonna ask for freebies and client discounts and you ain't never gonna make no money that way.
You wanna be that fantasy that will make the other person cream in thier pants thinking about ya. You make them feel like they are the one and your willing to rock thier world they will come back and spend more and more and more. And get paid up front. Those are the house rules... Here's still another example from a wholly different field. He already knew the price over the phone so why was he not prepared. Your work nature You may want to become an escort just so you can earn a bit of extra money. You'll find a number of professional TS escorts willing to fulfill this "need". You also mentioned you really like sex, and that you're a grower not a shower.